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The “sandwich” generation can benefit from a little help caring for young children and aging parents.
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The “sandwich” generation can benefit from a little help caring for young children and aging parents.

Thursday, January 24th, 2008.
Issue 04, Volume 12.

Story Last Updated : Jul 27th.

Millions of people spend their time sandwiched between two generations, so much so that they’ve become known as the "sandwich" generation. It can be a struggle for these people who care for young children and aging parents, all while maintaining some semblance of their own lives.

The cold-weather season can be particularly challenging for the sandwich generation. But there’s no need to stress out; many services are available to ease the burden on this rapidly growing generation of people. Consider these ideas.

1. Supermarket shopping online is a practical way to shop for groceries and supplies for aging parents and have them delivered directly to the house. Many seniors do not like traveling in wet or cold weather, so having the convenience of groceries delivered to the door is a big plus. Services are offered by many familiar supermarket chains, so brand-name and store-brand products will still be available in many instances.

2. Cleaning services can provide relief for parents and caregivers. They’ll go top-to-bottom throughout the house and tackle all of the chores that parents may not be able to handle any longer. A service also saves a trip over and added cleaning work. Most cleaning services can be scheduled for a weekly or monthly visit, keeping Advertisement
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3. Other professional services can help everyone stay healthy and happy. From dog walkers to volunteers who come spend time with aging parents, there are many people willing and able to share the workload.

4. A caregiver can also look into transportation for Mom and Dad if they no longer feel comfortable driving. Some cities and towns sponsor accessible vans that will take seniors shopping or on special excursions. Their children no longer have to serve as chauffeur to both their parents and any kids who aren’t yet old enough to drive.

5. Caregivers should make close friends with the parents of their children’s friends. Just knowing there is another responsible adult they can call upon if they need a quick sitter or someone to pinch hit with school carpooling and the like can lift pounds off of their shoulders. These friends can also be willing listeners if one just need to vent a little bit now and then.

By looking to others to take on some of the workload created by caring for both children and adults, caregivers can ease stress and develop better relationships with the people they love by being able to spend quality time with them.


 

2 comments


priscilla
This does little to address poor and rural caregivers.

Kaye - SandwichINK
Comment #2 | Sunday, Aug 2, 2009 at 9:45 am
Good list of tips. If the Sandwich Generation caregivers are providing senior home care from a distance, here's a couple of other options to help: 1. Using Amazon with the Prime membership enables you to send orders for free with 2 business day delivery or very cheaply - $4.99 - for 1 business day delivery. I've used that to help one relative with everything from books to OTC medicine to non-perishable groceries when he was sick. 2. Meals on Wheels can be a wonderful resource, even for those living in rural areas. Because they generally have a sliding scale of payments, this works for all income ranges. Meals on Wheels can provide relatively healthy, hot meals once a day, along with the opportunity for our aging parents or relatives to see someone else, and be seen which can be a great way to help with safety concerns for them as well. It's important to know, though, that not all of the local chapters can provide meals for special diets. You would have to contact the individual group that would help in the region your relative lives in.

You can find more ideas and suggestions for Sandwich Generation senior home care givers and grandparents at www.SandwichINK.com and www.SandwichINKrealEstateInfo.com :)
 

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